Ask Colin: Prenups

Hi Colin, I’m in a relationship where my significant other earns substantially more than I do. He brought up a prenup and how assets would be divided in the case of a divorce. I’ve reiterated multiple times I’m in this…

Resolutions

At some point amidst the hubbub of the next few weeks, muffled by the cacophony of marketing messages, social pressures, and self-imposed constrictions, limitations, pressures, and anxieties: reclaim a few minutes to stop, take a few long, slow, deep breaths,…

Notes to Self

I keep a little file on my computer where I write notes to myself about things I’ll likely need to be reminded of at some point. I check these notes any time I’m feeling unmotivated, psychologically down, physically sluggish, or…

I Don’t Know

There are few more powerful phrases one can utter than “I don’t know.” Many societies disincentivize the admission of ignorance, equating it to stupidity or inability. And the more mastery we achieve, the more we’re pressured—overtly or covertly—to avoid appearing…