Notes to Self

I keep a little file on my computer where I write notes to myself about things I’ll likely need to be reminded of at some point. I check these notes any time I’m feeling unmotivated, psychologically down, physically sluggish, or…

I Don’t Know

There are few more powerful phrases one can utter than “I don’t know.” Many societies disincentivize the admission of ignorance, equating it to stupidity or inability. And the more mastery we achieve, the more we’re pressured—overtly or covertly—to avoid appearing…

Badass

I remember the moment, many years ago, when I realized I didn’t have to be a badass. There’s a pervasive myth within the world of entrepreneurship—and within many adjacent sub-cultures—that in order to succeed, you have to be hard, have…

Empathy

The word “empathy” is, in its modern incarnation, typically used when we feel bad for someone or to express a sort of sympathy. We use it to convey that we recognize and feel their pain or discomfort or sorrow. The…

Habits

What we do isn’t truly who we are, but it’s a suitable stand-in for many practical purposes. What we do is informed not just by our beliefs, biases, experiences, expectations, and other internal circuitry, it’s also informed by the structures…